This week, we wrap up this month’s habit on “calories”, which completes our “6 Pillars To Better Health & Vitality” program. In this final post, I’d like to show you where it’s easy to get tripped up when you’re trying to make healthier choices.
It’s a common problem, and it derails far too many people.
And don’t worry, I’m not going to leave you there. We’ll discuss ideas to help you avoid these obstacles so you can stay on track for better health, despite the challenges along your journey.
But first, I want to share an alarming statistic.
It’s been widely reported that excess abdominal fat puts added stress on the heart, which increases the likelihood of heart failure.
In a recent analysis involving 12 studies and more than 360,000 people, they found that every 4-inch increase in waist size ‘added’ a 29% chance of heart failure.
WOW!!! That sounds painful. And preventable.
There’s no way I’m going to let my gut put me in an early grave. Or cause me to have my chest cracked open.
Sure seems like an incentive to change a few habits, doesn’t it?
Personally, I’d rather eat right and exercise than have that hanging over me. How about you?
I think Jim Rohn said it best… “There are two types of pain you will go through in life. The pain of discipline and the pain of regret. Discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.”
Let me help you find a way to eliminate this.
Plenty of things are vying for our attention… like friends, family, and co-workers. Busy schedules, work demands, hobbies, and personal commitments. And how about social media, smartphone notifications, the media, and of course our thoughts, just to name a few.
Your list may be longer. And in most cases, aside from the good that you may gain from some of them, these “attention grabbers” usually result in one thing.
They’re a distraction!
More accurately, they can disrupt your plans and interfere with your health & wellness initiative (if you allow them to).
The point being, when you’re trying to make healthier choices and build better habits, it’s easy to get tripped up when life happens and distractions occur, despite your good intentions.
You intend to eat something nutritious, but you’re on the run and short on time. So you grab a highly processed snack because it’s fast and easy; instead of eating the macronutrient-rich meal or snack you planned for.
You think, “At least it says ‘low fat’; or ‘lightly sweetened’; or ‘organic’… So it must be okay.”
Maybe it’s a power bar or a sports drink. That’s good for you, right? Not exactly!
Or worse, you stop at a drive-thru. NOOOoooo!!!
Here are some ways and places where your nutrition and exercise plans could be compromised.
- A hectic work schedule
- Restaurants and bars
- Vacation
- Business trips
- Family functions
- Going out with friends
- Holidays
- Late nights
- Old habits
- Running behind schedule
- Not getting enough sleep
- Deceptive marketing
Or just fill in the .
Think about what trips you up. Your Achilles Heel.
OK, now that you’ve thought about it, what can you do?
How can you take control, at least most of the time?
I have some ideas. 10 to be exact…
See if any of these can help:
- Keep snacks with you. For example, I like to keep bags of nuts on hand. Like at my desk, in my car, and in laptop bag. And fresh fruit and veggies for the day while I’m on the road.
- Prepare and pack those snacks in advance to grab on the run. Otherwise, spare a few extra minutes before you leave to get them together. And remember your water too.
- Brown bag it. This makes your lunch decision easy and healthy. And it will probably save you a few bucks too.
- Eat before you go out. Yep, especially if you’re going to a function, a party, or even dinner. This way you’ll have had something nutritious and won’t be starving. Which could cause you to opt for less healthy choices. Then you can just “pick” while you’re out.
- Eat to 80% full. Your brain will catch up with your stomach if you give it a few minutes. And you’ll feel much better. Think about those times when you think or say “I’m so full”, or “I ate too much”. How do you feel during those moments?
- Avoid fast food like poison. I know it’s difficult sometimes when you’re out. It seems like 90% of your ‘options’ are garbage when you’re trying to eat clean. And they are unfortunately! That’s where the first 3 or 4 tips above can help.
- Don’t let 5 + 2 = 0. This is where you work hard to stay on track all week, only to throw it all away on the weekend. Late nights and some alcohol will usually sabotage your efforts. I’m not suggesting that you avoid having fun. Just trying to bring awareness to a vicious cycle that can leave you wondering why nothing is working. But it’s one you can easily fix.
- Get balanced. Aim for 50% carbs, 30% protein, and 20% fat with every meal. Opt for quality – complex or fibrous carbs, lean protein, and healthy fat whenever possible.
- Strive for 95, as Carol Merlo puts it. Stop chasing perfection, and beating yourself up when you fall short. Perfection isn’t practical so set your sights on getting it right 95% of the time. And lighten up a little. Go for progress, not perfection.
- Learn from feedback. Mistakes and failure are both good things if you learn from them. And these are usually our most valuable and memorable lessons. So, don’t be afraid. Instead, relax and embrace these teachable moments.
As we wrap up the last post of our 6 Pillars program, I want to say thank you. Especially to our pilot group students.
Those of you who stuck with the 6 Pillars program have met or exceeded your weight loss goals. You’ve learned some valuable lessons and have built sustainable habits that are now part of you and your new healthy lifestyle.
And remember, even if you didn’t reach your goal yet, you’ve come a long way. Because you have the results to prove it. Nice work!
If you participated in the 6 Pillars program as a loyal follower of this blog, I am extremely grateful. And I congratulate you as well. I’m proud of you. And you should be too.
And finally, thanks goes out to everyone for keeping me accountable.
Let me know how the 6 Pillars program helped you. I’d love to hear:
- What was most beneficial?
- And most challenging?
- What do you struggle with?
- And what was your “a ha” moment?
Your feedback is always greatly appreciated.
If you’re new to us and would like to learn about the 6 Pillars program, and how to incorporate these 6 healthy habits into your life, you can link back to the first post of the series here.
And I’d like to ask one final…
Who do you know that could benefit from a life-changing transformation in their health & wellness? I’m building a waiting list for another 6 Pillars pilot program.
So let me know, or share this.
Thank you for sharing your time with me. I hope you found value.
Now it’s time for YOU to take action…
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Thanks John for including me in your pilot program. With a hectic schedule and a love for eating, I fall into the same pattern every year. I’ll lose weight, then put it right back on again. Your program has been a tremendous addition to my life. Learning the 6 pillars to better health has been an easy program to follow and most importantly to stick! As the program progressed, I found these pillars becoming habits! I love making sure to drink 4 giant cups of water each day, I love getting up in the morning and throughout the day, making sure to get to 10,000 steps, I love focusing on getting a good night sleep, and the most important thing….you changed my relationship with food! I now am making the choice to make healthier food choices that make me feel much better after eating, instead of bad food choices that make me feel uncomfortable. I am much more conscious now of how to live a healthier lifestyle, and have 3 notch marks on my belt showing my 6-month progress! I recommend to anyone who is looking for a lifestyle and mindset change to follow John’s program. All you have to do is follow along and act on it. Eventually it sticks, and becomes part of your life. Thank you again John for all you have done for us!
Great suggestions John!
Thanks John, I appreciate your feedback and your support!